Hey Guys. Today I’ve got a review of a new book I just read called “107 Proven Ways To Get The Girl – The Raw Secrets Of Attracting Women Anytime, Anywhere” By Patrick James.
I haven’t been reviewing too many dating advice guides lately because their simply hasn’t been anything worthwhile coming out that I’ve been aware of…
But this book is actually pretty unique and I think will be helpful for a lot of guys, so I wanted to give you all the details and my opinion on it.
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Anyhow, as I mentioned I think this book will be very helpful for a lot of guys who are looking to improve their success with women. In fact there are some pretty compelling success stories posted on Patrick’s website – like one from a guy who just got out of a 8 year marriage and is now smashing hotties on the regular!
I love stories like that – But back to my review… I’ve tried to keep this brief while still giving you all the info you might be looking for about this book and Patrick’s advice in general.
I’ll start out by giving an overview of what the book is a ll about, the tell you everything that you get with it ie. the bonuses, and then wrap up by discussing my favorite parts of the book and giving my personal recommendation on whether this is something worth reading.
Lets jump in….
What is 107 Proven Ways To Get The Girl All About?
As the title implies – this book shares with you 107 pieces of tactical advice that you can use to get the girl.
To clarify – “getting the girl” refers to getting a woman sexually attracted to you, so that she will want to hang out with you, make out, go to bed and so forth, and do all of the fun stuff that most heterosexual men want to do with women we are attracted to.
Now when I first I heard about this book I thought “okay, sounds cool” but I was concerned whether this was just going to be mish-mash of 107 random tactics, or whether they were going to be organized as a sort of roadmap that you could actually follow.
Thankfully, these 107 methods are indeed organized into a “blueprint” so to speak, that makes a lot of sense to me. Yes, it’s cool that there are 107 distinct tactics, but rather than focusing on that it probably makes more sense to look at the big picture of Patrick’s methodology…
One of most important concepts that Patrick teaches is the idea of “the Thirsty Many vs. The Thriving Few”.
I think this is a really great way of looking at things – and I could talk about it all day, but basically the idea is that most men chase women and live in a place of scarcity, and because of this women really aren’t feeling them. The Thriving Few on the other hand live in abundance simply because they are thinking about things correctly, and approaching life and women correctly. And the book shows you how to become one of the Triving Few.
Also – to give you a better understanding of the format of the book – I should mention that there are 3 main parts of Patrick’s system: Intrigue, Lust and Obsession.
This makes sense as this is how I’ve found that things play out in real life. First a woman becomes aware of you (and if you are doing things right becomes intrigued), then as you spend time with her she starts feeling that itch that she needs you to scratch, and then once you’ve scratched it better than any other dude ever has then she becomes obsessed and you can then choose whether you wish to pursue a relationship with her.
What Makes This Different From XYZ Dating Advice?
I’ve been reading/watching/listening to all of the most popular dating advice guides for over ten years now, even before I started this website. So I’ve seen it all, and as you can probably imagine most of the new stuff that comes out is really nothing new.
So if you are somebody who has also consumed a great deal of dating advice, then you will probably notice that some of Patrick’s methods are similar to things you have heard before. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing – as it kind of makes sense that the things that actually work, and are PROVEN to work, are not some secrets that nobody has ever heard of before.
That said, many of the concepts and tactics in Patrick’s book were things I had never heard of or thought of before. Not to brag, but I do pretty well with women, and even with that being the case this book still gave be a couple of big a-ha moments.
Patrick’s material is also very unique and in my opinion superior to anything I’ve seen in quite a while because of the way that Patrick explains these methods.
He teaches this stuff in a real no-nonsense kind of a way. He doesn’t hype it up like it is this super-duper ninja tactic. Instead he just teaches you proven tactics and then explains clearly why they are effective, and how best to use them. I think this is really important because it makes this material much more digestible, and therefore I feel it should be much easier for most guys to implement.
The book also is free of any corny Pick-Up Artist tricks, anything goofy, unnecessary etc… Patrick clearly has a very strong understanding of female psychology and it seems like he simply thinks about this stuff in a very clear, intelligent way.
What All Do You Get With Patrick James’ 107 Ways Book?
As I mentioned this book is actually being offered for free on Patrick’s website here. Yes, it really is totally free! You just pay the shipping and handling which is like 5 bucks.
This being the case I assumed that I simply would get the book in the mail and I didn’t really bother looking at his webpage and reading about all of the other stuff that you get when you get the book.
But as it turns out you actually get a few cool bonuses along with it including a PDF version (which is handy because this way you can start reading it right away). Then you also get a couple of PDF: “The Truth About Charm – Creating Chemistry On Command” which is all about how to be more charming & “How To (Attractively) Meet Women At Will” which teaches you how approach women you may see as you go through your day. The last one is a fantastic resource for guys who may feel shy about starting conversations with women as it contains some really cool insights on how to overcome these issues that I had never heard of before.
Then you also get access to an 8 module video training course called the “Get The Girl Blueprint” where Patrick breaks his whole system down for you on video.
Patrick also has a couple of other programs (not included) called “30 Perfect Texts That Get Girls” and “Magnetic Personality Formula”. I’ve reviewed a few texting courses over the years, and have to say this might be the best one ever!
My Favorite Parts…
So there was a lot that I liked about this book/program, which is kind of crazy because I got it essentially for free after paying the shipping fee.
The video course was really good. It has different content than the book, but follows along with Patrick’s system, and I just usually prefer video because I can let it play ins the background while I’m doing stuff around the house, over and over again until it really sinks in.
From the book there are so many “ways” that it is hard to pick just a couple favorites, but I definitely recommend guys reading and re-reading #85 “A Taste Of Her Own Medicine”. I can’t tell you how many women I lost when I was younger because I din’t understand this one!
His sex tips were really good too – I knew most of them, but if you don’t they will definitely come in handy.
And as I mentioned I also really liked the bonus PDF on meeting women.
I think that this book is a great resource for any guy looking to improve his success with women. Even if you already have a beautiful woman in your life, I’m sure you will still get something out of it that will change your life for the better.
And it’s free, so it’s not really much of an investment. I also highly recommend his texting program. It’s probably the best texting guide ever.