Let’s face it guys… Walking up to an aggressively attractive young lady and introducing yourself can be an intimidating proposition! Sure some guys make it look easy, but honestly, for most guys this can be a major challenge.
Well, if you are interested in developing your skills in this department you may be interested in today’s post because Christian Hudson has a new program called “Say Hello” that promises to show you how to break the ice and get a woman’s number in 3 minutes or less…
I decided to take a look at this program and write up a quick review of it today along with my personal thoughts in the product.
Hopefully I’ll be able to answer any questions you might have on it.
What’s The Main Idea Behind The “Say Hello” Program?
Say Hello was created by Christian Hudson who is one of the best known experts on dating and attracting women. I’ve previously written reviews of his very popular Girlfriend Activation System, and HOW2TXTHER programs, as well as The Desire System, which was also produced by his company.
Anyhow, this program is all about meeting women, approaching them and getting their phone numbers so that you can date/hook up with them later.
If you are a single guy then you already know that approaching women is one of the most important and intimidating aspects of dating. Really this is the only way to meet women other than meeting women through your social circle, or online on Tinder or that kind of thing.
And even if you have a decent social circle that introduces you to a fair number of attractive women, it’s still nice to be able to approach women, so that you don’t miss out on any amazing women that would have to pass on otherwise.
The program is based off of a specific “Yes Sequence” that Christian developed based of some high level sales psychology that he studied and modified to use for his own dating purposes. The other main component is training that incorporates concepts from performance physcholgy to help you perform at your very best when you need to the most.
More On The “Yes Sequence”…
The Yes Sequence is a basic framework that you can use anytime that you see a woman that you’d like to talk to, to get her responding positively to your right of the bat. The idea is to get her saying yes to you, and then build on that. If you are familiar with any kind of sales methods, you have probably heard of the “yes ladder“, and this is a similar concept.
One of the real benefits to this sequence is that it is fully adaptable to both the specific situation in which you meet a woman, and your own personality, so it is not a strict, or “fake” routine, or anything like that. It is also simple enough to be summarized on a single one page cheat sheet, and the best part is that it was designed to help you get a woman’s phone number in just 3 minutes or less, so their is a clear goal in mind with this thing.
What Is Performance Psychology?
One of the thing that I like about Christian and his programs is that they are based on psychological principles that have been studied extensively and are proven to work. And then he takes these principles and expands on them and adapts them so that they can be applied for social/dating purposes.
So that’s what he’s done with performance psychology in this program. Performance psychology is basically applying psychological principles in order to facilitate peak performance, and it’s something most commonly used by athletes and performing artists. Since this program is all about approaching women, performance psychology is used to make sure that you are able to put your best foot forward and make the best impression possible, instead of letting your nerves get to you when you are talking to a really hot woman.
PROs & CONs:
Pro #1 – Best method for approaching that I’ve seen… Over the years I’ve read a lot of different theories on the best way to approach women, and get over the anxiety that I feel when approaching. So far this is the best method I’ve found. There are a number of reasons I think it’s the best, but the key thing is that it gives you a specific sequence that is easy to remember that you can use in any situation. And once you’ve gone through the content I assume that the vast majority of guys will be able to actually take action and use this sequence to meet women without being overcome by anxiety.
Pro #2 – Relatable Content… Another thing I like about Christian’s programs is that he isn’t some weird “pick-up” guy. He just seems like a pretty normal cool dude who has spent a lot of time thinking about thsi stuff and figuring out how to explain it to other guys in a way that allows them to use his knowledge. He clearly has a real understanding of what it is like to be super shy and awkward about approaching women, and has tailored this system for guys who share these same obstacles (which I believe almost all guys have on some level.)
Pro #3 – Very Systematized… This program provides a lot of content and thoroughly explains all of the concepts that you’ll be applying, and that is all very helpful. However, one of the best parts is the fact that it provides a clear cut SYSTEM that you can simply follow without getting bogged down with a lot of unnecessary theory. I think this is super important because at the end of the day it’s all about taking action and following a plan to get you to the results you want.
Pro #4 – Massive Bonus Package… The core training that you get with this program is thorough, without being overwhelming. This is good because it helps you to focus in on what is really important. However, you also get a bunch of cool bonus trainings that are definitely worth digging into once you get through the main product and start applying it. I won’t go into too much detail on the bonuses since they are explained at length on the Say Hello website here. But it’s pretty amazing how much you actually get with this including a confidence training program called “Complete Confidence Hypnosis”, “The 7 Commandments of Dating 9s and 10s”, “The Art Of Seduction System”, and that training on performance psychology that I mentioned above that might be the best part. Plus there are other bonuses that I don’t even have time to get into!
Con #1 – Limited Scope… This isn’t a glaring flaw by any means, but the fact is that this is a program that is focused on a specific aspect of dating – approaching and meeting women. There are a bunch of bonuses that cover other topics that I mentioned above, so it’s not like that is all that you are going to learn about here, but that is the focus of it. That being said if you are a guy who wants to be able to meet more women and be able to do it effectively, then this training should be very helpful with that.
If you are a guy who would like to meet more women and be able to feel comfortable approaching attractive women in any situation then I think this program should be a major game-changer for you!
And then to top it all of the 365 day satisfaction guarantee kind of makes it a no-brainer if this is something you are interested in…