Today I decided to do something new and share a few personal tips on how to go about meeting women during the holiday season. I realize this is a bit of a change from the regular book reviews I do on this site. Unfortunately nothing all that interesting has come out this month, so I don’t have any fresh reviews at the moment… I guess all the PUAs and Dating Coach authors are taking some holiday time off to drink eggnog and what not!
That said, I think that it’s high time that somebody wrote a book specifically on this subject of hooking up over the holidays. There could be something out there on this subject, but I have yet to stumble upon it in my travels. And, meeting women this time of year does have it’s own special considerations that you should keep in mind. Truth be told, I think this is actually one of the best times that you can meet women for a variety of reasons, including:
- Single women are actively looking to hook up and share a little passion/romance around the holidays…
- It’s a festive time of year – With lot’s of company Christmas parties, house parties, dinner/cocktail parties etc… And a great time of year for going out to bars, clubs and lounges because everybody is traveling and getting together with friends that they don’t see often, going out for drinks and meals.
- Depending on your profession, you probably have some time off to hang out and pursue fun activities like meeting women. Heck, if you are a college student you’ve got a solid month to just kick it, and find girls to spend time with.
Really, everyday is a good day to meet women though isn’t it? You’ve just got to get yourself motivated to get out there and make it happen. Don’t just lay around you parents house, or wherever you are spending the holidays, and sleep all week. You’ve got to take advantage of all that the holidays have to offer.
That said, let’s look at my 3 tips for scooping up women during the Christmas, Hannukah, Kwanza season…
TIP #1) Bring Mistletoe With You Everywhere You Go
I have actually considered doing this one at other times of year too, but I’m not sure if it would still be as effective. Basically what you do is you carry a small piece of misteltoe on your person at all times so that you always have it handy. Then, when you start talking to a girl you like you can just whip out your little mistletoe sprig and hold it over her head. Tell her, “uh-oh, somebody is standing under the mistletoe”. She’ll think it is HILARIOUS. And often she’ll just start kissing you. I’ve even held mistletoe up over my head at a bar after making eye contact with a woman and had her walk up and start making out with me without saying anything. It’s like magic. I don’t know why more guys haven’t figured this one out yet. Works like gangbusters.
TIP #2) Go To Parties
Social circles are one of my most favorite ways to meet women. After all, if you can get your friends and aquaintances to introduce you to women and talk you up a bit, your job gets easier. Also, if you go to a party where people (other women) like you, then you will benefit greatly from all that social proof when a woman sees you getting positive attention from other females. I could go on and on about this one. If however you find yourself with no holiday parties to go to what so ever, then I would stroingly urge you to make expanding your social circle a major priority for 2013. Women at parties will be open to talking, socializing, and flirting, that’s why the go there, so this is definitely something you want to take advantage of.
Tip #3) Host Your Own Get Together
When you are the one organizing a party or “get together” you automatically assume the leadership position which is very attractive to women. Also, having people over to your place means that at the end of the night a young lady (or two) might stick around after the other guests leave to spend some alone time with you… slumber party? If you are out of town for the holidays, or your place is too small to host anything you can always get people together to meet up at a local night spot or organize something to be held at a friend’s house. The key is to invite girls who have female friends, and guys who have female friends. It’s important not to invite too many dudes, or girls who will bring dudes or else the whole thing will turn into a giant sausage fest!
Hopefully these tips will give you some good ideas on how to get started with meeting women around the holidays. If you are looking to improve your social life so you have more parties and such to go to I definitely recommend checking out Bobby Rio’s Social Training Lab that comes with his awesome Conversation Escalation course… that stuff will super charge your social life no doubt about it!
Alright, I got the scoop on some brand new programs that will be dropping in Janurary… So stay tuned for that.
Also, check out this video from David Wygant where he talks about picking up women during the holidays: